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We love heroes. We aspire to be like them. We adore what makes them great. And we want to be around them. 

Yet, as much as we love heroes, we also have an adoration for anti-heroes too. You know, the lone wolves. The girls who diverge from conventional attitudes; the single-minded warriors. Anti-heroes have as much sway in our culture as the tried and true heroes. 

But, why? What makes them attractive? If the anti-hero is not the standard of excellence, then why gravitate towards them? 

In this episode, I take a deeper look at why we love both types of heroes. And even how the time of our life can be a big reason for it. 

P.S. be sure to check out my Facebook live launch party with Dr. Robert Snyder and his book, Why Did Daddy Have to Leave? This book is a follow up to What Is A Veteran, Anyway? – a children’s book detailing what veterans are and what those in the armed services do for the United States. 

You can find Dr. Snyder at https://www.robertsnyderbooks.com/. 

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“You complete me” – Jerry Maguire. 

It’s a famous line from the ’90s. One that spawned a great many parodies and memes in its wake. It’s a statement of love from one person to another. That without you, I’m not me. Or at the very least, I’m not the me I’m meant to be. You’re my soul mate – the one who completes my existence.

Yet – at the risk of sounding like a major Debbie downer – is this concept really true? Be it in the context of a fictional story or our waking lives. Truth can be stranger than fiction, but fiction can communicate truths in indirect ways. So, in this – rather ranty – episode, I dive deeper into what constitutes a “soul mate” in story. What does it look like? Why is it so attractive? And from my own perspective, does such a thing actually exist (fictional or non-fictional). And if you disagree, let me know. As a writer, I’m open to critique. 

Mostly. 

Enjoy! 

Links

Webpage: www.jclfaltot.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_writers_lens/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thewriterslens/?ref=aymt_homepage_panel 

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There’s an old adage in storytelling: “show, but don’t tell”. It basically means this – when telling a story, it’s better to let your reader decipher the emotions, motivations, and settings rather than telling him what he ought to think or believe is happening. Sounds easy, but in practice, it’s harder than you may think. 

In this episode, I explore the nature of “show, don’t tell” and give some examples of what this looks like. Granted, there are times when “show, don’t tell” is appropriate. And there are times when it isn’t. 

Going deeper – what is it like to show people what they’ve never seen before, yet still tell them what they already know? What does that mean? And should writers, authors, storytellers be aware of this dynamic? Well, that’s another topic worth discussing in this episode. 

Enjoy! 

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We will go to great lengths to reach our dreams. We’ll throw caution to the wind. We’ll forget what it means to ‘play it safe.’ We will do more than the usual to get there. 

But, with that in mind, we must be careful of what that pursuit looks like to other people. Because if we are so willing to chase our dreams so blindly, then we must be cognizant of how others might take advantage of us. And our dreams. 

Yes, it’d be nice to live in a world where everyone has our best interests in mind. It would be less stressful, for sure. But, we don’t. And we can’t fool ourselves into thinking otherwise. As a creative – one who is writing books – I’ve had to learn this hard truth of entrepreneurship. My ideas are special to me. I want them to succeed. Yet, I can’t be someone who throws money at the next person willing to extend a helping hand. I have to be smarter than that. And so does anyone else trying to make his / her dream a reality. 

In this episode, I talk through a recent experience I had involving a potential scammer. With so many aspiring authors out there, the number of ‘reputable marketing agencies’ has also increased. And as I detailed above, this should not come as a surprise to anyone in the creative, entrepreneurial sphere of things. 

Enjoy!