The Writer’s Lens – E47: How Do We (Not) Handle Criticism And Feedback?

As a writer, I tend to handle criticism and feedback quite well. Nothing ever gets to me. There’s no negative press I can’t manage; no scathing review I can’t brush off as nothing more than white noise…

…or I could just be lying to myself. 

If you’ve ever written a story – especially something you feel strongly about – and had someone give you a negative reaction, you’ve probably felt like me: crushed. You may consider never writing again. You think it’d be best if the world never heard your voice. Your message. Ever.

That’s a tough place to find one’s self, but hey, you’re not alone. Even the most seasoned artists feel some pressure to appeal to their audiences. Yet putting our creative selves “out there” is only one part of the process; standing strong in the wave of responses is another. So, with this episode, I talk through some of the filters I’ve developed for dealing with the good, the bad, the ugly, and frankly, the apathetic.

And though you don’t have to use any of my tactics or filters, what I do hope is that you find this particular episode to be encouraging in your own creative journey.