The Writer’s Lens – E31: When Timing Meets Thick Skin

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You gotta have thick skin when you’re a creative. If there’s one thing I lacked early on, it was thick skin. The ability to take criticism – good or bad – and keep moving forward. Taking criticism is paramount to a writer’s long-term success. Hearing it; absorbing it; applying it. 

But, there was another thing I lacked even more: patience.

I’ve always possessed a strange anxiety about my writing. I’ve often thought that if I didn’t write my book fast enough – or publish it quick enough – then some other author might steal my idea. And therefore take my place in whatever niche I was trying to fill. Ultimately, this kind of worry is unnecessary. And highly toxic to a creative’s craft. 

And in hindsight, as much as I needed to learn the value of criticism, I also needed to learn the value of taking time with my ideas. Not just the good ideas, but my best idea.